Thursday, December 9, 2010

The Clumsy Baker

Last Thursday was my first day with absolutely nothing to do. No studying, no family dinner dates, nada.

So I decided to try baking again. And I made these http://www.eatingwell.com/recipes/cranberry_honey_spice_pinwheel_cookies.html

and some of this cranberry orange bread http://allrecipes.com//Recipe/cranberry-orange-bread-2/Detail.aspx
I was so excited about not having anything to do, even shopping at Wal-Mart in the December madness was fun!

I am REALLY enjoying baking. But I am BAAAAD at it...here are a few examples of just how bad...


So, when I baked last week, I used every single prep bowl we own. Because I'm a smidge OCD/anal-retentive and it was fun for me. But the clean up was a bear, so this time, I decided to just go slowly and put everything into one bowl when prepping the bread. Flour, good. Sugar, good. baking powder, good...oh wait, that said three TEASPOONS, not tablespoons. Try to scoop white baking powder out of white sugar was difficult to say the least, so when I baked the cookies, I spread everything out into seperate bowls. Lesson learned.

Still on the bread, I decided to double the recipe. I paid close attention...and then apparently got distracted at some point. I got to the last step and started to fold in the fresh cranberries. I thought to myself, "well, this seems difficult" and "hmmmm, i don't think this batter is going to pour into the loaf pan like the banana bread batter did last time" So I double check the recipe...yep, I neglected to double the liquid ingredients. OOPS. So I picked 50 fresh cranberries out of the thick dough, added the liquid, mixed, and it was perfect!


For the cookies...I took my time and laid out every ingredient. I didn't have a single problem with these cookies! And let me tell you, if you have the time, you should really try these, they were so very good! So good, I'm going to make another batch today! It claims it makes 90, last time, I got about 50 out of the recipe...so I'm going to try to slice them more thinly today.

Off I go to the grocery store for ingredients...in the SNOW! I woke up this morning to a beautiful surprise of three inches of snow!

I'll probably post again later today or tomorrow about today's baking expedition!

Sunday, December 5, 2010

I ... BAKED?!?!

I finished my final much earlier than I thought I would...

so I cleaned the house. my, how I LUH-UV a clean house....then I had an afternoon to kill before Holmes got home...

so I baked. haaaaaaaaahahaha. If you know me, you know that's funny.

I put on an apron and even used the mixer!

I decided to do banana bread with chocolate chips and walnuts. Chose a low-fat ish recipe and planned to just add some random amount of chocolate and walnuts at the end of mixing since they weren't in the recipe. Well, I have a tendency to screw up when following recipes, so I tend to get super meticulous about following it exactly as best I can. Including putting the bread in the oven without adding the chocolate chips and walnuts. About fifteen minutes later, I noticed the unopened bags on the counter. Well, I had gone out and bought the durn things special, so I pulled out the bread, stirred it (yes, it had definitely already started to form a bottom crust) and added the chocolate chips and walnuts. That's when I realized I wasn't gonna get my pretty light colored bread with dark chocolate dots through out... because the batter was already HOT. I'm a dolt. So it's a strange dark color. But it sure is tasty!

Next, I followed Neena's suggestion for flourless peanut butter cookies. Got everything together (all three ingredients, look out, it was tough...) and then read the recipe, "combine in mixer". First, I was disappointed, then I remembered that we DO have a mixer! So I whipped that out and um, well, had no clue what to do next. Fortunately, Miranda is as attached to her phone as I am, so I texted her this picture and asked which one to use. Whew, crisis averted. Finished those up no problem...I never realized how GREASY peanut butter is. I had to wash my hands three times. ick!
They are SUPER tasty though...


Saturday, December 4, 2010

Snow, Tacky Lights, and Running

Today was unusual for a Saturday (not that I really know what a usual Saturday would be...)

I went to *work* this morning. I met up with my supervisor to observe her complete a swallow eval of a patient whose diet she was planning to change to NPO. This poor man took pudding in his mouth and tried tried tried to swallow, but it just wouldn't happen. The structures were all moving, but in a very uncoordinated manner. Then he started vocalizing (mostly jargon) and you could just hear the pudding coating his vocal folds and falling down into his trachea, oh it was awful. Gurgly does not even begin to describe the sound of his voice and breaths. My supervisor did an amazing job of counseling the daughter about the situation. They decided together than NPO was not the best choice and they settled on hospice. It was absolutely heartbreaking, but I'm so glad I had the opportunity to see it.

After that, I cleaned the house a bit (for some reason that always helps me focus on school work) and then I started on my take home cranio-facial final exam. It's essentially an 8 page paper. It's not terribly difficult, just incredibly time consuming. I worked on that for five hours and my brain started to rebel, so I quit. Only two more questions to finish tomorrow...

After shutting down the document, I bundled up in winter running gear, wrapped a headlamp around my waist, stuck the hat lamp on my hat, and headed out for a 34 degree run. IN THE SNOW!!!! It was sooooo pretty and peaceful, just seeing the snow fall through the brightness of my headlamp and in any lampost and car headlights. I had seen a house on my run Thursday that I wanted to go see, but it was a quarter mile down a road I don't normally take...so I worked it into my route tonight. Talk about tacky lights! For those of you not familiar with Richmond, every year, the city supports a tacky light tour. Houses all over the city go NUTS with Christmas decorations and people get groups together or take buses/limos, drive around, and look at all the lights. I personally think the driving part of it is incredibly obnoxious. There's always traffic near the houses, it involves way too much thinking as far as where to go first, next, last, blah blah. Anyways...on my run tonight I saw this home and another home that I think should be considered a tacky light house, but I couldn't find it on the website.

That kind of stuff has to be one of my favorite things about running. I experience stuff that I never would if I weren't a runner. I feel pretty confident that I enjoyed the mini-snowfall tonight more than most people in the area. I also enjoy the thought that people driving by think I'm an absolute loon for being out in that weather. If you aren't a runner, that might seem weird, but I know several runners who love being considered a nutter for running in the extremes.

Speaking of runners...I'm watching the ACC Championship game and they did a little preview for tomorrow's NFL pre-show. They will be "celebrating" the cold tub! Ice baths aren't just for runners, I guess!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Interstate Move #8

So, I'm moving back to NC... In January... In a few weeks...

My externship in the acute care department of Baptist Medical Center in Winston-Salem starts on January 11th. That's not all that far off...

I have planned absolutely nothing...fortunately, my Mom and Alan are gracious enough to let their 30 year old daughter move back home, so I don't have to find a place to live.

For those of you that I probably should have told by now, I do apologize...the issue was that for a while it was kind of a secret. I wasn't sure if it was going to happen at all and I didn't want to spread the word around, just to spread another word around about it not happening. By the time it became public knowledge, I'd forgotten who all I had told. And I've been kind of avoiding talking about it, because well, it's a bittersweet move.

I haven't hated Virginia. Not at all, but I haven't realllly loved it either. I am grateful for the move, I think it was a neat journey for Michael and I to have in the beginning of our life together...but to put it bluntly, I'm over it.

Reasons the move is sweet: NC is home, not to mention the greatest state in the country. The majority of my dear friends are there...and my dear friends are starting to have babies and I don't want to miss being there for that. My mom and Michael's mom are there...and whenever we decide to have babies, I don't want them to miss being there for that. The opportunity at Baptist is AMAZING. My supervisor already sounds fantastic. I'll be "working" 8-5 four days a week in the acute care center, evaluating and treating patients recovering from strokes, traumatic brain injuries, etc. Once a week, I'll be in the outpatient swallowing clinic and the NICU. I can't express how excited I am to spend some time in the NICU. This setting is high on my "settings where I really want to work" list. I plan to re-read my entire pediatric swallowing and feeding text over the break (I have Arvedson, if anyone has and wants to share their Wolf text, I'd be forever indebted!). Anywho, I'm looking forward to learning so much at Baptist.

Reasons the move is bitter: MICHAEL MIGHT NOT BE COMING WITH ME. this breaks my heart to even think about it, but that's life I suppose. He's been applying for jobs down there as well, but until something comes through, he'll be here in Midlo. See, this is why I've been avoiding talking about it. Now I'm crying. crap. oh well, it had to start sometime. Anyways, I've known a number of grad students who have spent more than a measly 3.5 months away from their husbands in the pursuit of a degree. I know we'll get through it. Most of the girls who have been in my position tell me I really won't notice (read back a bit, 8-5 5 days a week, did I mention the hour commute, online physics course and intensive COMPs studying?). We'll see. anywho.
Other reasons the move is bitter are obvious: missing family, and our new (and old) friends. I'll miss being around the other Holmes', the Hills, the Blochers, the Katai, and all my grad school girls (thank goodness for Carrie and Renee moving south too, I'm taking a little Longwood with me). I have a feeling I'm also going to miss the craft beer scene quite a bit. Cap Ale has almost become a second home...love those people (and their yummy drafts). It's also been nice visiting with my grandparents and some extended family on a regular basis.

Ok, now I'm just rambling. So there it is. I'll be back in Greensboro early January. As soon as COMPs (march 5th), the praxis (march 12th), and conferences (march 17th & april 9th) are over, I'll actually be able to enjoy it.

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Update

These posts are few and far between...but grad school is a pretty good explanation for that!

This semester is almost over. 31 days until my last final is due. I can't believe it. This semester has been great, my two practicum placements have been interesting and fun. First I did a month at a middle school and high school. It was mostly language intervention, some articulation, and a little fluency. I learned a lot, mostly that I actually enjoy that population.

Since then, I've been at a continuing care retirement community. This facility has independent living, two levels of assisted living, permanent and temporary health care, and a memory care unit. I L O V E it. I wasn't sure how I'd feel about this population, but I adore it. The therapy and evaluations are interesting and fun, while still challenging. We address swallowing problems, cognitive and memory decline, and voice problems.

My favorite part is getting to know the residents...all of them, not just our patients. My supervisor is an employee of Genesis Rehab and I'm really impressed with their company.

I've been working on a research paper in addition to my classes this semester. I've submitted it to two conferences, but I haven't heard back yet...
It's an evidence review on Cued Speech. I have learned a lot doing it. I have a love/hate relationship with research. I learn so much doing it, but sometimes its too frustrating. I have also learned that I would prefer to have research partners to brainstorm ideas and confirm thoughts, etc.

I'm running again! Slowly increasing my mileage and speed, but my hip is feeling great. I'm still doing PT exercises about twice a week. Holmes and I registered for a 5K in Charlotte, NC in December. He's been running three times a week as well. We also try to play tennis a couple times a week. Some weeks that's the only quality time he and I spend together...we've been trying to work in a date night at least once a week, just him and me, but sometimes that doesn't work out. I am grateful for my grad school opportunity, but holy smokes, I'm tired of it interfering with my ability to just be a wife. Fortunately, he is incredibly supportive and understanding.

Holidays are coming up and I can't wait. We are doing a little pre-Thanksgiving weekend in Pinehurst with the Holmes, then Thanksgiving in Atlanta with Alan's family (its been way too long since we've spent any time with them). Christmas will be out in Cali this year. It's a lot of travel, but we are used to that. Hopefully I won't be taking Physics online over the break...I'm working on finding an online course for the Spring.

Last big update: Early to mid January, I'll be moving back to my Mom's! I have been given an amazing opportunity to do my spring practicum in Winston-Salem at Wake Forest's Baptist Medical Center. I'll be in the Acute Care department, but will have opportunity to do some observations in the NICU there as well. Mike will be staying in Midlothian and we will be working out some sort of plan to see each other on weekends. It's only three and a half months...and, again, he is so supportive. There just isn't a comparable setting in Virginia for me to do a placement like this...I can't wait to get started!

Sunday, August 22, 2010

100th Post

That's fun...thanks google dashboard, for giving a count of my posts.

Anywho...hopefully, you'll all be glad to hear that getting back in the habit of not being lazy was actually quite easy. I guess I'm fairly simple minded---dangle a carrot, I hop after it...

Carrots: One syllabus of two was posted earlier in the week and I met with one of my clinical supervisors to discuss my client load for the month of September (middle and high schoolers - AU, ID, HI, SLI, and LD).

Me hopping: planning lesson plans, creating goal pages, reading chapters, printing articles, and organizing notebooks. that also included getting up early to work out this morning before church. good bunny.

and once again our dining room table looks like this...


YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS.

Friday afternoon, our department arranged a resume/interview tips seminar with Longwood's career center. It was kind of interesting...I was psyched to see that it is acceptable to put GPAs on a resume. I also learned that HR hates ring back tones. Seriously, the lady leading our seminar said she just hangs up when she's calling people for interviews. Doesn't matter what the song is...at least she doesn't discriminate. So job hunters, nix the ring back tones!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Eat Pray Love - SLP nerd-out

I read Eat Pray Love a few months ago. This past weekend, Mom wanted to go see it in the theaters, so we did.

It was slow, by the way, we didn't *love* it, but I know some others that really did enjoy it, if only for the scenery of the countries...

anywho...

I'm a nerd because as soon as Richard from Texas came on the screen and called Liz "groceries" for the first time-I found myself trying to transcribe the word in my head. Then I (over?)analyzed the way he said it and tried to determine (silently in the theater) if I say it the same way...then I started to wonder if I ever say it...

my efforts at transcription

starts with /gro/-that part is easy...i can even type it in IPA
this is the tough part...he has a strong 'sh' in there that leads straight into the /r/ which I think has to be vocalic, but I just don't feel my tongue make any vocalic movement for that /r/. and *WHY* is it an /sh/???
then /Iz/ no biggie.
two syllables? I think definitely when he says it, but if it is a vocalic /r/ then it has to be three syllables? and what about when I say it? I think I say three?

I missed most of the India part of the movie trying to figure all that out-which is ok, that part bored me in the book too.

A little bit of nothing

Grad school has taught me something really interesting about myself-I'm a lazy bum.

Usually, I'm really driven. I mean, up at 6am or earlier to run/work/school/read/clean/cook ALL day-EVERY day. It is typically really unusual for me to just *sit* and do nothing. Even if I'm watching tv, I have to have a magazine or a book or laptop and gchat in front of me. I work well under deadlines, usually finishing things well ahead of time.

However...



without a deadline or defined schedule (read: grad school breaks), I become a big lump. I sleep in, sometimes exercise, sit on the couch, and work hard to convince myself to get up to empty the dishwasher or go to the grocery store or do anything to prepare myself for this school semester. By some small faux-miracle, I have been able to get a lot done around the house....I just think all of it would have been done sooner if I had more deadlines.

So what have I done? Cleaned several times, cooked for my husband on a kind of regular basis, organized all my school stuff in the office, watched several movies, visited family and friends ALL over (I feel like most of this break was spent driving...). Major high-point : I've started running again!

I've had several dreams about running pain-free. Last week, while visiting family in Greensboro, I headed out on the greenway. Nice flat, asphalt/concrete path. I intended to walk two or three miles. For some reason, I just decided to try and run a little. And it worked...sort of. I was dragging my right foot a smidge and REALLY pushing off with my left leg. But I made it a mile...and then another mile! (with a mile walk in between). The second mile was a little less Igor from Young Frankenstein-ish. The next day, my entire left thigh was aching from the extra effort...

Two days later, I tried again...another mile down, less foot dragging. Walked a mile, then ran another...three days later I ran two miles straight...with almost correct gait! I fully intend to get out there and run two this morning...as soon as the red smudge on this passes

It's already about 90, even in the storm, but I love running in the rain.
Last week, I ran across a quote I've heard many times before-forgive me for not looking up the origin...and for probably not quoting it exactly
There will be a day when I can no longer do this. Today is not that day.
Well, if that doesn't make you get up off your duff...then I guess you aren't me...
I'm trying to remember it a little more as I ease back into training (two miles, three times a week, look out, I'm on fire). It is easy for me to get discouraged by that...last year I was running at least 22 miles a week, consistently and doing speedwork on the track...I miss being able to just go out and do that!

My clothes miss it too...not smart to pair an intense love for craft beer with a lack of exercise




Ok, so that was a lot of nothing...oh well! School starts next week...
Aural Rehab and Voice every Monday...clinic is therapy with middle and high schoolers in a rural county for a month, then a long term care facility. I also have three Saturdays for AAC and Cranio-facial Anomalies. Then classes are done, spring is all practicum!

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Update

Yesterday, I turned in my last assignment for my summer grad school courses...that might translate into blogging on a more regular basis...we'll see!

This summer I took TBI/Dementia, Research Design, Ethics, and Fluency Disorders.

The summer schedule was rough...several four hours classes, some back to back a couple days a week. But as usual, the course material was interesting, so it really wasn't so bad.

I've started my summer clinical practicum with a local private practice owner. She sees a wide variety of clients in two offices (Richmond and Charlottesville) as well as contracts with a local school district for ESY services. I'm really enjoying it. I'm getting to do a little bit of auditory oral therapy (which makes me feel useful again, because I know what I'm doing there) and a lot of articulation therapy (which makes me feel like I'm learning, because that is new territory for me). I'll also see some clients who stutter and a client who has had multiple tongue surgeries. I have two more weeks of clinic at this placement.

Michael and I celebrated our first wedding anniversary two weeks ago. (mushy alert). I love him more every day. I'm so grateful for him and everything he does for me. He spoiled me the whole weekend...we went to George Clinton down at Brown's Island, spent some time with friends and tasted beers from Virginia breweries at the Capital Ale House beer fest, he got me the new iPhone (coming next week!), and even had sushi on Independence Day (it was too hot to cook out!!). We also opened a bottle of champagne from one of our wedding showers and my sweet grandmother saved some of our wedding cupcakes!
I love every minute I spend with him, and we spend a lot of minutes together! I love my friends and family deeply, but I would truly rather be with Michael doing absolutely anything than be anywhere else.

As usual, we've been traveling a ton. And wedding season is still in full swing. I had to miss Whitey's wedding in Michigan back in June because I had a weekend class (bummer) but last weekend, we went to Smith Mountain Lake for Liz and Josh's wedding. It was really fun to see some old UNCG friends and some family.


Next weekend, we are headed down to Charlotte for Lane and Heather's wedding! Crotts is coming in from Texas, Whitey is coming in from Michigan and I'm looking forward to seeing so many old Charlotte friends!

Ohhh, running update. About 7 or 8 weeks ago, I started having some pain in my hip. I figured I was just scrunching up my ITBand from all the sitting (remember, four hours classes on top of hour long commutes) and less running. Well, it just go worse and worse, so I tried just yoga, no running, kept getting worse, so for four weeks, I did not workout. It drove me nuts, but I figured it was important. After four weeks, I tried to go out for an easy run. It still hurt, so I started seeing a PT. She thinks my pelvis has been rotating forward so I'm learning lots of exercises and I've started a walking regimen to build back up to running. I'll be walking for three weeks, then I start running at a slow pace, only about 8 miles a week. After ten weeks, I should be close to my old mileage. We plan to start training again after that for a winter half marathon. We'd like to do the Rehoboth Beach Half on December 11th, but it is $25 more than the Thunder Road Half in Charlotte...so it's kind of a tough decision.

Hope everyone else is doing well...look for more posts soon!

Thursday, July 8, 2010

SERIOUSLY, Mattel?

Received from one of my grad school professors in an email...didn't have time to search for an official press release...


Fourth Circuit Judges Let Mattel Take ''SAY'' Away
from Special Needs Company Super Duper Publications
Give Mattel $3.6 Million in Damages Too

Greenville, South Carolina (MMD Newswire) July 5, 2010 -- In a decision that turns trademark law on its head, Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals Judges Dennis Shedd, G. Stephen Agee, and Clyde Hamilton, have upheld a trial court verdict ordering special needs educational company Super Duper Publications www.superduperinc.com to pay $3.6 million to Mattel Toy Company (of which $2.6 million is attorney's fees) and to stop using the word SAY in seven of its product titles.
According to these judges (and trial court Judge Henry Floyd), the use of the word SAY by Super Duper in titles of speech and language therapy materials it makes for children with autism and other communication disorders, infringes on the trademark of a Mattel toy called SEE 'N SAY and dilutes this Mattel trademark. http://pacer.ca4.uscourts.gov/opinion.pdf/091397.U.pdf

The court reached this conclusion even though there was no evidence at trial that for more than 17 years of Super Duper's existence anyone had ever been confused between a Super Duper SAY educational product and the Mattel toy.

The court reached this conclusion even though there was no evidence that people think that the Mattel toy named SEE 'N SAY is "famous" similar to the names BARBIE or KODAK.

The court reached this conclusion even though there was no evidence that anyone ever thought of the Mattel toy when they heard the names of Super Duper's SAY educational materials like FISH AND SAY, SORT AND SAY, or SEE IT SAY IT.

Significantly, instead of issuing a published opinion in which they would have had to analyze the evidence according to established trademark law, the three judges chose to issue an "unpublished" opinion, which the court emphasized is "not binding precedent in this circuit." The result was Judges Shedd, Agee, and Hamilton rubber stamped Judge Floyd's trail court decision even though the evidence did not support this incredibly unfair result.

The trial record indicates in 1987 Super Duper began using the word SAY in titles of books, games, card decks, and other materials it created for special needs children. www.superduperinc.com For 17 years Super Duper produced SAY materials and obtained registered trademarks on its SAY products without objection from Mattel or any person and with the approval of the US Patent and Trademark Office.

In 2004, Mattel opposed Super Duper's application to register the name SORT AND SAY on a series of educational magnetic games, claiming consumers were likely to confuse these educational products with Mattel's SEE 'N SAY electronic toy. Mattel later sought to cancel three other registered SAY trademarks owned by Super Duper. The dispute ended up in federal court, where Super Duper sought protection of the court, Mattel sued Super Duper for $10 million of Super Duper's profits, claiming Super Duper had engaged in trademark infringement and trademark dilution.

For those of you who are not familiar with this toy by its name, SEE 'N SAY is an electronic toy that plays a sound when you pull a lever. ("The cow says...moooo.")
Super Duper's highly specialized materials are used by professionals in therapy to help children with autism and other communication disorders improve their speech and language skills. Mattel's toy is used as a plaything by children. The only professionals to testify at trial, two speech pathologists, stated they had used many Super Duper SAY products in therapy and had never confused them with the Mattel toy.

According to the trial testimony of Super Duper owners Thomas and Sharon Webber, "these products completely different, and the chances of anyone ever confusing them are nearly impossible". Mattel sells its toys to the general consumer market through large retail outlets like Wal-Mart and Target, while Super Duper sells its educational materials primarily to speech pathologists and special educators only through its own mail order catalog and website. The two companies never attend the same trade shows, have completely different packaging designs and logos, advertise in entirely different media outlets, and have no overlap in distributing their products.

In its appeal before Judges Shedd, Agee, and Hamilton, Super Duper argued that a proper application of the Fourth Circuit's seven-step trademark infringement analysis would lead the court to conclude that there was no likelihood of confusion between the Super Duper SAY products and the Mattel toy. In their opinion, the judges chose not to apply this seven step analysis, and instead summarily ruled that the "likelihood of confusion" issue was a matter for the jury to decide.

And that is not all.

The court went even further by upholding the jury's finding that Super Duper's use of SAY diluted the Mattel SEE 'N SAY mark. In order to reach this conclusion, the jury had to find that:

(1) the term SEE N' SAY was a "famous" mark on a level similar with marks such as BARBIE and KODAK;

(2) consumers "associate" the Super Duper SAY names with the name of the Mattel toy (even though Mattel did not present ANY evidence of this association at trial.) In other words, the judges upheld the jury finding that when average people hear the name of these seven Super Duper SAY therapy products, like its "FISH AND SAY" game or SEE IT SAY IT flip book, they immediately think of the SEE 'N SAY Mattel toy and believe that Mattel has made FISH AND SAY or SEE IT SAY IT educational materials; and

(3) Mattel was entitled to $1 million in profits that Super Duper had made on these SAY products since 1987, even though Mattel admitted the sale of Super Duper's items did not impact Mattel's sales at all.

Super Duper is appealing this decision.

Media Contact:
Name Nancy Wolfe
Email speakup@speakupforsay.com
Phone 864-243-9000

Saturday, April 24, 2010

For Longwood Girls

I think I neglected to really understand what ended Thursday night.



Last August, we were thrown in a room at the Greenwood library and talked "at" for two straight days. I was excited to start school, but my husband was at home recovering from surgery and on those two days, I did NOT want to be on campus. Holmes recovered well and in record time and before I knew it, I was crammed in that grad workroom with the 16ish of you 12 hours a day (usually seemed like that long anyways).

Three to five days a week, we have spent at least an hour together...learning, being frustrated, laughing, asking questions, crying, and eating. Mostly eating.



That part of grad school is over! This summer we will all be in different places at different times...even when classes start again, not all of us will take them together. Next fall, it just won't be the same.

So, I'm about to get a little mushy. I love you girls! I feel so blessed to be thrown into a situation like ours and actually LIKE all of you! That can be pretty difficult when 16 women are crammed together. I truly consider each of you a friend.



As much as the commute to Farmville annoys me, I enjoy every second of being there and about half of that is because of you girls!

Ok, that's enough! Have a great weekend, study, but balance it with play!!!



Oh, and don't forget to get your tickets to the beer festival on June 12th. And I think we are going to try and have a cookout Memorial Day weekend-yall are invited!

Thursday, April 15, 2010

To-Do'er

I'm a list person. If you doesn't get written down, it doesn't get done.

I don't have a to-do list, I have a to-do notebook. I despised making a list, crossing three things off, then adding more things, running out of room and having to make a new list, re-writing the things I hadn't yet crossed off on a new sheet of paper. So now I keep a spiral ring notebook and often have current "to-do" items uncrossed on several pages at once. Welcome to grad school.



As well as being a list person, I'm extremely methodical. They kind of just go together. I need start something with a plan and stick to the schedule or everything just kind of falls apart. Welcome to my running regime. When I had a set routine (read: when I had a job), I ran four days a week, with very clear intervals of slow/fast, long/short, tempo/laps, etc built into each run, for at least 10 weeks in advance. I completed a marathon and won my age group in a 5k. Without this regular schedule, I'm lucky to run 15 miles a week, much less four days a week and I'm overjoyed to hit a 9:30 mile average. I'm looking at two days of running this week. Sheesh!


So grad school and running, obviously (other than the Hubs) are two of my major time spenders. My fourth focus in life is my walk with Christ (those aren't in order...actually it usually goes, grad school-hubs-running-God...that's SAD on SEVERAL levels, but beside the point and a topic for another blog).



To-do lists and Method have to be apparent in my walk with Christ as well. I need a set study laid out for me, I can't just open the Bible and read something. For the past week, I've been reading through Psalm 119 (it's lllllong). I found an online commentary for it and every morning I've read eight verses and done a little study on it. Having this structure has really helped me be diligent.

So what you say, thanks for sharing. HA. What I find interesting is that this chapter is kind of all about that. Being methodical when it comes to our growing relationship with Christ. Since we cannot see Him and are so easily distracted by what we can see, our relationship with our God can so easily fall to the backburner. Psalm 119 is a long, drawn-out, and seemingly repetitive chapter about being devoted to the Word. What happy planning God had for me putting this chapter before me.



Ok, so seriously, the point. If you need a way to create your habit of getting in the Word each day, then I would suggest Psalm 119. I found two commentaries online...one is super long. http://www.eternallifeministries.org/psalm119.htm I found it a little to eloquent and my reading became laborious and I was reading for obligation, which isn't what I want this to turn into, so I found another. http://www.christnotes.org/commentary.php?com=mhc&b=19&c=119
I'd suggest reading Mr Spurgeon's explanation of the chapter first (to help understand the reason behind the repetition) for either one you choose.



Update on life in general: School is over in two weeks! Lots of paperwork and finals before then, but I'm gonna get through it. I have learned so much this semester. I'm so blessed to be in such an amazing field. I've worked with children and adults, artic problems and auditory processing issues, language disorders and delays, and learned a LOT of the medical side of it. I'm fortunate that my program recognizes that I've spent quite enough time in a school (thank you!) so I get two medical based practicums next year, where I'll get to work with adults (and observe children) with swallowing and feeding problems and stroke and brain injury.



Once I get past this semester, we have a whirlwind of travel for weddings (two of my bridesmaids-Krick and Mir!) and a graduation, Mike's brother from Coastal Carolina...I get to visit Georgia, South Carolina and North Carolina all in the span of two weeks. My three favorite states, I'm so excited. We're gonna see tons of old friends. AAAND, we're going camping! Hopefully for at least four days, we haven't finalized it yet.

Mid-May, school starts again. Four classes over five weeks. One is a weekend course. Then the end of June brings my first external practicum and runs through the end of July. I think it sounds like a pretty decent schedule, but everyone says the summer is worse than the semesters, so we'll see.



In June, we have the World Beer Festival and my grandparent's 60th anniversary celebration. In July, we have three more weddings and our first anniversary! It's definitely gonna be a busy summer, but I plan to enjoy every second of it.

Happy Spring everyone!

Monday, March 8, 2010

Spring BREAK....

....'98! Ok, I didn't even go on the trip where all that started, but I think of it just about every time I hear someone say "Spring Break" and it makes me think of my crazy college friends, so I'll claim it here :)

Catch-up. Yeah, I don't blog anymore. If I'm writing, its for class. Yippee. Reflections and study guides and research proposals and what not. School is going well this semester. Hectic as usual, but great. This semester I'm working with a 4 year old who has basic artic and language issues, nothing super interesting. Next week, I'll start seeing a woman in her mid 20s who is losing her hearing and wants to learn to lip read. Should be interesting considering my background and her hearing loss. I'll get to practice some counseling along the way, I think. My other clinic assignment is RtI. Response to Intervention is a prevention practice that's fairly new to the field. We go into an elementary school as a team and see kids who have residual speech errors (/r/ and /s/ in third grade) but no other problems. We do artic drill for seven minutes in rotation. It's challenging...a lot of "say "seed", good, now pull your tongue back and say it again, ok, remember to keep your tongue up by your back teeth and push the air straight out" OVER AND OVER, but it is pretty cool to help them go from "theed" or "sheed" to "seed".

Mike is doing well, business is still in business and at this point in the economy, that's what matters to us! His wrist is doing fine...he actually went out today to try some golf. He's not back yet, so I'm assuming that means it doesn't hurt! Stoke Row is still playing show at least once, usually twice a month. Their next big show is an ASPCA fundraiser at the National...eight bands and they are the closer. They are also playing at the Monument Ave 10k, which kind of launches them into Richmond local celebrity status (IMHO) HA.

We're still really enjoying our new church. We have both gotten involved in life groups and Mike started playing in the band. It's just a great community.

Families are good on all sides! We've been away from NC for almost two months now. That's a LONG time. I can't wait to get back and see people...we head down to Greensboro to throw a shower for Kristin and Duker on the 19th. Then life should be slow-ish until May, when the travel gets nuts. Weddings and graduations and weddings and WEDDINGS :) I kinda grumble about the amount of money and time it's gonna take, (I'm just being honest!) but I'm so very happy for my friends and family. Such blessings are always welcome!

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Haiti vs. Home

Note: I think *I* wrote this about a month ago and saved it as a draft for some reason...I say I think, because I really don't even remember writing it. That's how awful my memory is. But I agree with it...um, so, I'll take credit until someone else steps up and says otherwise. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.


The situation in Haiti is sad. I don't have to tell you that.

But arguments are being made by some about the amount of money that the government is giving to the country. The amount of outpouring from our citizens. Why not to ourselves? We have homeless, we have hungry, we have orphans, etc. Superficially, it could be easy to agree...but the homeless here are better off than the homeless in Haiti. The water here, even from a random building tap, is likely safer than anything available in Haiti. The orphans here...well, I won't get into a judgment of America's foster system because a lot is wrong...but just as much is right. That option doesn't exist in Haiti. The hungry? Again, a half eaten sandwich can be found in a trash can here, that probably would not kill a homeless person. In Haiti, I doubt those are anywhere to be found.

And not too long ago, we did this for Katrina...our people. So I don't think its as much a view of "where" but "what". The level of catastrophe and helplessness.

But maybe this is a good time for us to reevaluate the level of catastrophe in our own country.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Tebow // Haiti (unrelated) // spoken language

Ok, I don't have time to 'really' blog, but these are a few things I just realllllly wanna get out. These will be short thoughts...

Haiti was/is a tragedy. Absolutely. I have no issue with fundraising and helping, etc. But before you send ten dollars via text from your couch because Ryan Seacrest told you too, maybe give five or ten dollars to that homeless shelter (not person, shelter) you pass on the way to work or the gym. One of my original thoughts was about the orphans, and why not adopt here in America, but I thought more about that...
despite the sometimes atrocious aspects of America's foster care system, any orphan here in America is better off than 90% of the orphans in other countries (especially Haiti right now). When you're talking about an orphan who is laying outside on a blanket on the concrete because their building isn't safe to enter, then you're probably also talking about a lack of food and drinking water...oh and any other building to enter because they were all destroyed. For the most part in America, orphans are cared for. Anywho...so that's that. And notice, I'm not saying don't give to Haiti, but if you all the sudden become a giver, give in your community as well. Five dollars helps just as much there as ten dollars will help in Haiti. And notice I AM saying, adopt from Haiti :)

Oh and as for the folks who were criticizing the cruise ships for still porting in Haiti: a) boost economy at least a smidge b) don't punish yourself for others hardships c) maybe consider nixing that cool jungle tour you were going to do at the next port and give that fifty bucks to a relief fund (then come back and give five to a homeless mission).

Next. Tim Tebow. sigh. the golden child. He finishes his college career and looks around at how to be in the public eye next and chooses to be in a commercial about one of the most controversial issues between Christians and non-Christians.
If you want to share your faith, share Christ, not 'law'. When someone who is pro-choice hears that he is pro-life, they'll stop listening. They aren't going to stick around to hear about 'why' Tebow's is pro-life...the conversation has ended before it has a chance to start. This PR move will alienate half of America (that is *not* an official statistic).

Deaf kid CAN speak. clearly. and well. and at an age appropriate or HIGHER level.
www.agbell.org

Monday, January 18, 2010

Blessings!

A few weeks ago, Holmes and I decided to start visiting some other churches in our area. We love the people at Southside, but it just wasn't the place for us. The first place we tried is literally across the street.

Its a small church plant held in an elementary school auditorium. We even walked there (side note: I love the idea of a walking distance community...so this really excites me) in the rain! I think Holmes was most excited for a chance to wear his new Bean boots (Thanks Mom and Alan!). Anyways, we walked in and were *not* attacked by syrupy sweet greeters. Simple head nods, genuine smiles and good mornings.


So far, so good. We had a seat and a couple people came by and introduced themselves...small talk, everyone was very nice. We really enjoyed the music (which could stand to be turned up a smidge) and the pastor was fantastic. He was engaging and funny. The sermon was on something I had never heard before. When you've been going to church for 29 years, this is unusual. But its also part of what I look for. Church is for community, but Church is also for learning. Blessedly, I already know that Jesus loved me and died for my sins and through His grace and love, I will receive God's kingdom. I don't dislike hearing about it. But some Sundays, when its early and I'm sleepy, you gotta give me more.

This Church did! The sermon was about how God sent the law to the old testament people to condemn them. He *knew* they would never EVER be able to hold themselves accountable to it. This was His "in". Now the people would see just how desperately they needed Jesus. I hope that's a good summary, the guy did speak for 45 minutes yesterday...so I'm not sure I've done it justice in two sentences...

Anyways...all that to say, we loved the new church.


Oh, the other interesting thing the pastor taught us was that the 10 Commandments did not encompass the law. There were SIX HUNDRED and THIRTY-NINE laws! This morning as I opened up the browser to the "Our Daily Bread" to read today's devotional and the verse is Leviticus 19:18. A LIST OF LAWS! HAAAA! Maybe not funny to you, but me and God had a little chuckle together!

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Back to Busy

I've always been the type who learns best in a 'trial by fire' situation...and I love being busy. I'm most productive, balanced, and happy when I'm busy.

So this past week should've been a great week...and it was!



After a FOUR WEEK BREAK, (side note: four week breaks are unnecessary. This extended amount of time just throws life completely off-kilter. That is not to say that I didn't *enjoy* that break, but man, it was long) I started back to school on Monday with a 9am evaluation in Cumberland. It went really well. I LOVE giving evals. If I could just be a diagnostic SLP, I think I'd be cool with that...I like the challenge of keeping a kid on target through some really boring tasks and activities. That took about two hours, then I headed to campus to start writing the report and learn another new eval to give the next day. I'm getting better at report writing...which bodes well for the diagnostician idea. I was on campus that night until 9. First day back = 12 hours plus 2 hours of driving. Thrown in the deep water. And I loved it.

Tuesday was similar, run/eval/observation/report/class. Wednesday was a little more normal, a new client (and another eval) in the am and my old client group in the afternoon. Thursday was really nice...nothing all day, I finished up those reports, read some chapters for classes and got about 85 things done (including four loads of laundry, dishes and a five mile run). Class that night ended early and I was home before ten!



Friday, I got to attend a meeting my good friend Christine and her volunteer team with Hearing House had planned with the Cochlear reps. It was so great to see DeeDee and Laura. It REALLY made me miss that job. I was good at it..and it was so fun. On the other side of the table, being with Christine and hearing about all her work, made me miss serving kids directly. I'm not gonna lie, I got a smidgen depressed. Obviously, I adore being in school. But man do I miss working. I'm so blessed to be able to do something in a field that I'm mega passionate about...and its a bit sad to be so disconnected from it right now.

So after coming home from that and reading about syntax and why all the black kids sit together in the cafeteria (interesting book, but that's for another blog), I started to REALLY bum myself out. Then I see it. Capital Ale House Midlothian posts on their facebook page "Firkin Friday-we hear it might Allagash Black".



Allagash Black is one of my absolute favorite beers. Great in a bottle, better from a tap...I could only imagine what it would be like mega fresh and served at the perfect temperature. What I haven't mentioned yet is that we are in crazy budget crunch. That lack of unemployment income and no more graduate assistantship finally caught up with us. We cut back cable and put the gym on freeze. We are by no means in financial trouble, but we are trying to be smart. And going out to a bar at the end of a $75 in gas costs week is not too smart.

But it's Allagash Black. served at 55 degrees. from a cute little mini-keg thing. at our favorite bar. where we could see our friend Katie. ok, so you see where I'm going with this.



So we go. For "just one" we promise each other. HA. It was heaven in a glass. And as usual, the company was great and we were having a blast. So we have "just one more". Then some friends call to invite us to dinner and we figure oh, what the h, let's just stay. So our friends join us for dinner...on them! Seriously, we have great friends. Anyways...we had a blast. I'm so lucky to have such a wonderful husband...we have so much in common, I feel like it might be a bit unusual.
Now I'm back at it. Reading about the syntax of adolescents. Surprisingly, its not that boring...

So this semester is back in full swing already...but I feel like I have a better grasp on how to balance it all. Here's what it will look like: Mondays - Motor Speech Disorders 1-2:50, Feeding and Swallowing 6-9. Tuesdays - RTI 11:00-12:30, Public School Methods in a Diverse Society 6-9. Wednesdays - artic/lang client 10-11, phonological awareness clients 4-5. Thursdays RTI 11-12:30, Language Disorders in the School Age Population 6-9. "off" Fridays. RTI doesn't start for a few weeks. Somewhere in there, I'll also (hopefully) be seeing a 2 month old with Down Syndrome. I'm also prepping for the Virginia Graduate Research Forum in February, then preparing to teach an undergrad class about communication impairments in April.



I'd like to keep the running at about 20 miles a week, but we'll see. No speedwork in forever, haven't had time for yoga. So I'm a bit out of shape, but I think the distance is still in me.

That's enough procrastination for today...I'm gonna keep up the productive streak...